All of your pain, struggles and suffering are required. They are indicators of how you are out of balance and or how you need to change or grow to be the happiest most whole person that you can be and/ or are meant to be in this life.
It is not helpful to skim quickly past our difficult moments and stages nor should we escape from them. On the contrary we should not dwell in the negative space and attach for too long because pity is a silly thing BUT we need to see and hear our inner wisdom.
Often people ride on the surface or drown in the depths. We must move up and down to find a middle where our hearts lead and we can live the richest life.
Anything outside of ourselves that is a temporary relief is only EVER that “a temporary relief”.
Growing Up is not easy but we must do it. It is worth it💛.