But I Am Ready

But I am ready.  I truly am.  I am ready to let go of being miserable, alone and lonely.  I am ready to embrace the things that are GOOD that come to me without the following sense of dread and guilt.  Life is short isnt it? Let me be open for REAL.  Let me LET …

Anger To Tears

Yesterday's anger did eventually turn to tears.  It always does and it always is sadness and mourning of the loss underlying the anger . It is a loss you know?  Divorce, endings...even if you are the one that made the call.  It is a REAL thing....it is a REAL process....and it can be longer than you …

OUCH a Year

I have been writing...honestly I have...just not on here.  I am never quite sure how to bring my writing "here".  I do this often with blogs....I change my course and then drop the blog.  Letting Go, Being Love?  I am still trying to be that but the focus on ease and attracting and focusing on …

Sitting In Sadness

It was difficult some days when all was silent and the demands on her time were gone.  The distractions and constant chatter of life drowned out so much of her feeling of being lost.  She knew it was important and wise to sit in the sadness but it hurt to feel so flailing, falling and …

The Kids Are OKAY!

When a couple decide or consider the possibility of ending their marriage the first thoughts, fears, apprehensions and concerns are for the children. The thing that is imperative to realize is that it is not the divorce nor ending that affects the children but rather the relationship they witness. Further it is the choices the …