Choosing Me

I have amazing beautiful friends but one in particular is often in awe of my big heart and simultaneously terrified of what I will do next. Today she said "I am feeling motherly and so what about the thing I said? You've apparently not given any thought to my earlier suggestion that you seriously invest …

Anger To Tears

Yesterday's anger did eventually turn to tears.  It always does and it always is sadness and mourning of the loss underlying the anger . It is a loss you know?  Divorce, endings...even if you are the one that made the call.  It is a REAL thing....it is a REAL process....and it can be longer than you …