Closure – An Act of Love

She liked closure... closure was kindness and it honoured the ending of whatever direction the relationship was going. She felt that clarity, honesty and respect were the highest forms of love. She felt that One should always be honest, humble, loving, brave and kind. Even in endings ~ no, especially in endings it was important …

She Went Dancing

She bought the prettiest dress and did her hair. She did all of the things pretty girls are supposed to do. It was fun to dress up and adorn herself.She went with her loveliest friend who she had MUCH in common with and that she had grown so much with. They were divorced around same …

In A Box

You will never fit in a box if you have never been particularly typical. So save your energy darling, you MUST save your energy. No matter what you see going on around you that seems more of something you should be that you are not - more funny, more pretty, more classy, more sophisticated... whatever …

Sad But True

Knowing nothing about the single life and knowing I was entering it as a 40 year old woman WITH FOUR children I mentally prepared myself for a life moving forward ALONE. I know it's sad but it is true - I told myself often "if you do this, if you let this marriage go, you …

Be Discerning

You can't always know how someone will impact your life. There are no crystal balls and there are no guarantees. Nonetheless we can learn to be more discerning. Listen to your inner guide and Trust those uneasy feelings. Invest your time and energy with the ones that treasure you, see you and hear you. People …