Sad But True

Knowing nothing about the single life and knowing I was entering it as a 40 year old woman WITH FOUR children I mentally prepared myself for a life moving forward ALONE. I know it's sad but it is true - I told myself often "if you do this, if you let this marriage go, you …

Be Discerning

You can't always know how someone will impact your life. There are no crystal balls and there are no guarantees. Nonetheless we can learn to be more discerning. Listen to your inner guide and Trust those uneasy feelings. Invest your time and energy with the ones that treasure you, see you and hear you. People …

Pointing Back

Maybe the fear was GOOD - not an alarm bell warning to protect herself from others, but a pointing back to the parts of herself that she still needed to heal. Perhaps framing it this way was how to find peace and balance. Perhaps she was the only one freaking out, when the fear made …

Hello & Why

Hello - I have been gone quite a long time now. I have been busy and it has been an important time moving mountains, making changes, and perhaps even growing up a little bit. I am back and I am not sure how but it will come. I will write my way in. I will …

Active and Engaged

I am active, engaged and loving it. Engaged with life, my self and my progress. It is pretty cool to be in this space. I have even shrugged my shoulders at overatures of men. I even walked away from a man who seemed very intriguing. Its not like me... I have always let men be …